Wedding

This is not an entirely secret thing, although I've not yet really talked about it to everyone, but the C-man and I have finally decided to stop living in sin. Okay, so right now we're living in different cities, but that's beside the point. Since we now live in a state where "non-opposite marriage" is recognized (though not performed, god forbid), we decided that we would like to get married. This has really been a long time coming, but just a couple of weeks ago we decided to make it happen. Soon. Like, end of October soon.

The main reason is we wanted to do it on our anniversary (six years this year!), just because that was already a special day and honestly, we didn't want to deal with two anniversaries. Being impatient, we wanted to do it this year, hence the rush. It means that we aren't doing a big celebration, also. Just a small group of our family and just a minute group of friends. I imagine this will piss off anyone who didn't "make the cut," but really we wanted people there that meant something to both of us.*

But anyway, yesterday we went to Niagara Falls (on the Canadian side, where this is all legal), to get the marriage license (or as they put it, "licence"), and check out the hotel where this will all take place. Let me just say, it will be a gorgeous view of the falls for us and our guests, and just a wonderful day.

Now we just want it to be over with, so I can have a "husband."
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*Sadly, some of my best friends didn't make the cut, and I imagine there will be some resentment, but at the same time, sometimes life just sucks, so...